Why do so many straight men love porn or hentai that involves another man's penis?

[c3p0]

Being straight, i love women only and skip any hentai scenes or porn that involves a man though i like i tentacles( without a dick shape since its just a living sex toy.) i prefer voyeur, yuri. dancing, sex machines, masturbation, spreading, detailed close shots or drawings of the vagina, lots of hot things right? therefore, i find it strange that dudes pounding women is the main thing for the market since being straight is the general sexuality. what's so hot about a dudes voice while he's breathing, and close up shots of his face and dick n balls flopping in and out a woman then creaming all over the place? i tried watching it once but i didn't get off at all, i just felt like a cuck (lol) so whats the appeal?

Wouldn't watching only Lesbian porn as a "straight" men, make you a men that want to be a woman and like women?

I agree with any here and think you are very insecure about your own sexuality. Also IRL it exist something that it is called swingers where (hetero) men and women swap their partners for the sex. The do that not because are insecured and have doubts about themselves, but because they clearly now what they want and what they have and have trust in themselves, their partner, their relationship and in their own sexuality.

I also call Avaron1974 to this thread, to see what she thinks about this.

 

[Avaron1974]

I also call Avaron1974 to this thread, to see what she thinks about this.

As far as personal preferences for porn go, obviously lesbian stuff is top of my list but I don't dislike straight sex.

Sometimes watching a sexy woman getting fucked is hot. Amateur stuff is better for that, professional porn stars fake it too much and I like to see people enjoy sex. If I wanted to see people fake an orgasm I would have filmed myself when my ex used to go down.....

There is the misconception that there is no such thing as bad oral sex.... until I met my ex I would have agreed. I don;t say this just to be a petty bitch about her but she was so bad with her tongue I didn't have one orgasm from her in 5 months. Now add on to the fact that I have PGAD and have orgasms on a hair trigger should tell you just how bad she was. Think of a child eating it's first ice cream. I've had dog lick my face with more talent.

Enough of that...

I do find a certain insecurity about men that have a severe reaction to either straight sex or even gay sex. I know a lot of "alpha male" types. My girl is heavily into fitness so i've met a lot of her gym friends and I know the bouncers at all the clubs in town. The mens men....

Not a single one of them have any insecurities. I've seen them get dry humped by gay men and laugh it off. I've seen them in dresses for charity. They are secure with who they are so much that nothing else phases them and they need to act a certain way. They don't need to walk around acting all alpha.

On the other side you get guys that scream and shout in outrage over the mere sight of another cock. Those guys come across amazingly insecure. The protest too much it's almost like they are hiding in that closet and scared looking at another penis will confirm they feel the need to suck it.

Having preferences is fine, we all have them, but protesting something too much makes someone look insecure.

 

[morkery565]

Wouldn't watching only Lesbian porn as a "straight" men, make you a men that want to be a woman and like woens?

I agree with any here and think you are very insecure about your own sexuality. Also IRL it exist something that it is called swingers where (hetero) men and women swap their partners for the sex. The do that not because are I secured and have doubts about themselves, but because they clearly now what they want and what they have and have trust in themselves, their partner, their relationship and in their own sexuality.

I also call Avaron1974 to this thread, to see what she thinks about this.

that literally makes no sense...wut...i like lesbian porn because it's too hot chicks getting it on...that doesn't make me want to magically become a woman.. im not really insecure, if i was, i wouldn't make this thread to learn or get my points across because i'm exposing a part of me. didn't know about swingers, seems more like a fetish than just simply being sexuality secure.

 

[morkery565]

As far as personal preferences for porn go, obviously lesbian stuff is top of my list but I don't dislike straight sex.

Sometimes watching a sexy woman getting fucked is hot. Amateur stuff is better for that, professional porn stars fake it too much and I like to see people enjoy sex. If I wanted to see people fake an orgasm I would have filmed myself when my ex used to go down.....

There is the misconception that there is no such thing as bad oral sex.... until I met my ex I would have agreed. I don;t say this just to be a petty bitch about her but she was so bad with her tongue I didn't have one orgasm from her in 5 months. Now add on to the fact that I have PGAD and have orgasms on a hair trigger should tell you just how bad she was. Think of a child eating it's first ice cream. I've had dog lick my face with more talent.

Enough of that...

I do find a certain insecurity about men that have a severe reaction to either straight sex or even gay sex. I know a lot of "alpha male" types. My girl is heavily into fitness so i've met a lot of her gym friends and I know the bouncers at all the clubs in town. The mens men....

Not a single one of them have any insecurities. I've seen them get dry humped by gay men and laugh it off. I've seen them in dresses for charity. They are secure with who they are so much that nothing else phases them and they need to act a certain way. They don't need to walk around acting all alpha.

On the other side you get guys that scream and shout in outrage over the mere sight of another cock. Those guys come across amazingly insecure. The protest too much it's almost like they are hiding in that closet and scared looking at another penis will confirm they feel the need to suck it.

Having preferences is fine, we all have them, but protesting something too much makes someone look insecure.

As far as personal preferences for porn go, obviously lesbian stuff is top of my list but I don't dislike straight sex.

Sometimes watching a sexy woman getting fucked is hot. Amateur stuff is better for that, professional porn stars fake it too much and I like to see people enjoy sex. If I wanted to see people fake an orgasm I would have filmed myself when my ex used to go down.....

There is the misconception that there is no such thing as bad oral sex.... until I met my ex I would have agreed. I don;t say this just to be a petty bitch about her but she was so bad with her tongue I didn't have one orgasm from her in 5 months. Now add on to the fact that I have PGAD and have orgasms on a hair trigger should tell you just how bad she was. Think of a child eating it's first ice cream. I've had dog lick my face with more talent.

Enough of that...

I do find a certain insecurity about men that have a severe reaction to either straight sex or even gay sex. I know a lot of "alpha male" types. My girl is heavily into fitness so i've met a lot of her gym friends and I know the bouncers at all the clubs in town. The mens men....

Not a single one of them have any insecurities. I've seen them get dry humped by gay men and laugh it off. I've seen them in dresses for charity. They are secure with who they are so much that nothing else phases them and they need to act a certain way. They don't need to walk around acting all alpha.

On the other side you get guys that scream and shout in outrage over the mere sight of another cock. Those guys come across amazingly insecure. The protest too much it's almost like they are hiding in that closet and scared looking at another penis will confirm they feel the need to suck it.

Having preferences is fine, we all have them, but protesting something too much makes someone look insecure.
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so you'd be okay if a random woman came up to you, started rubbing you and made other inappropriate gestures? it has nothing to do with being "secure" it would be mad uncomfortable if someone of the same sexuality inappropriately did that to you. anyways, its my fault that everyone is questioning if i'm secure. i should've clarified a lot more of why i am protesting. before i made this thread,i was dead drunk and horny at home. so i went into the game section hoping to find something that suits my sexual needs. after a lot of browsing through a lot of postings, i got angry seeing most of the screenshots of it being dudes smeshing woman. so i created this thread to rant and to fully understand "why" is this the norm for many straight people. i regret making this thread, but i still will stand for what i have been saying. i wish this wasn't the norm, i want more hentai, and porn centered around my tastes, for what is honestly straight so i don't have to browse through all this bisexual content only to feel disappointed and frustrated. i know nothing will come of it anyway. i am a very foolish person.

 

[morphnet]

that literally makes no sense...wut...i like lesbian porn because it's too hot chicks getting it on...that doesn't make me want to magically become a woman.. im not really insecure, if i was, i wouldn't make this thread to learn or get my points across because i'm exposing a part of me. didn't know about swingers, seems more like a fetish than just simply being sexuality secure.

You sounds really insecure and VERY selfish, porn, hentai, adult games are not made for you, they are made for everyone. A "straight" woman has just as much right to see a penis in a clip / image / game as you do to see a vagina. So are you saying all porn should be made the way you want it and screw "no pun intended" everyone else?

" im not really insecure, if i was, i wouldn't make this thread to learn or get my points across because i'm exposing a part of me." You do know that there are guys out there that like to expose themselves just so they can get made fun of and it REALLY turns them on right? that doesn't mean they are not insecure, it just means they are insecure and kinky with some masochism thrown in.

FYI not sure if you know this but some media players let you bookmark so you could skip all those penises and just watch women and it would take alot less time than making and replying to this thread.

 

[cooldude33]

 

[Avaron1974]

so you'd be okay if a random woman came up to you, started rubbing you and made other inappropriate gestures?

I'm a lesbian, how do you think I met the women i've fucked?

Through polite conversation or having random women rubbing up on me in a nightclub?

Hint .... it aint the first one.

 

[morkery565]

You sounds really insecure and VERY selfish, porn, hentai, adult games are not made for you, they are made for everyone. A "straight" woman has just as much right to see a penis in a clip / image / game as you do to see a vagina. So are you saying all porn should be made the way you want it and screw "no pun intended" everyone else?

" im not really insecure, if i was, i wouldn't make this thread to learn or get my points across because i'm exposing a part of me." You do know that there are guys out there that like to expose themselves just so they can get made fun of and it REALLY turns them on right? that doesn't mean they are not insecure, it just means they are insecure and kinky with some masochism thrown in.

FYI not sure if you know this but some media players let you bookmark so you could skip all those penises and just watch women and it would take alot less time than making and replying to this thread.

yes! all porn should be made for me and i dicitate what women should watch!! *sarcasm* painting me a villain and putting words into my mouth is absolutely pathetic, i just wish more porn catered for people like me.

 

[morphnet]

yes! all porn should be made for me and i dicitate what women should watch!! *sarcasm* painting me a villain and putting words into my mouth is absolutely pathetic, i just wish more porn catered for people like me.

Oh gods there's a penis in my clip... but i'm straight... i don't need to paint you as anything, you are doing a fine job all by yourself.

" i find it strange that dudes pounding women is the main thing for the market since being straight is the general sexuality. what's so hot about a dudes voice while he's breathing, and close up shots of his face and dick n balls flopping in and out a woman then creaming all over the place? i tried watching it once but i didn't get off at all, i just felt like a cuck (lol) so whats the appeal? "...
"putting words into my mouth is absolutely pathetic" your words...

"i just wish more porn catered for people like me." there is, if you are too lazy or (scared of seeing a penis) to bookmark a clip to only see the woman... you could try JOI (jerkoff instructions) clips, private cams clips, clips where the woman uses a plastic lower male body, POV clips (alot feature only solo women) and alot of others, all simulating "straight" sex

Although if you "feel like a cuck" from watching a clip of a woman you'll never personally have sex with, having sex with another man... that's a YOU issue and really has nothing to do with being straight or not.... You might want to do more alone time thinking about why that is and less time finger painting in forums

 

[Meaning Less]

Why do I feel like some people are angry for having OP mentioning the porn they watch might not be so vanilla?

A bit too defensive imo, OP has the right to feel that way and let's be honest there are strong voyeur aspects of watching straight porn, regardless if you like it or not.

I'm sensing insecurities from both sides.

 

[cutepen]

All porn is voyeur.

I think that depends on how you view it. If you're thinking "oh yeah take my dick bitch" it's not voyeur, but if you're thinking "it's hot how they're fucking" it would be much closer to viewing it from a voyeur perspective. IMO that's also why we have such a different in camera angles, as in POV vs actual "voyeur" shots from the other side of the room etc.

 

[Meaning Less]

If you're thinking "oh yeah take my dick bitch" it's not voyeur

So if you are literally spying someone have sex irl and get off on it by just thinking "oh yeah take my dick bitch" it suddenly stops being voyeur?

Or if you let someone else fuck your girlfriend and just "self insert" as the guy fucking her, you also aren't being cucked?

 

[justpassingbyreally]

On a related note, there's way too much PoV porn catering to the OP and hardly any focusing on the (hot) guy fucking you.

 

[cutepen]

So if you are literally spying someone have sex irl and get off on it by just thinking "oh yeah take my dick bitch" it suddenly stops being voyeur?

Or if you let someone else fuck your girlfriend and just "self insert" as the guy fucking her, you also aren't being cucked?

You are being a voyeur, but if you're self-inserting and being aroused by the idea of you having sex and not even realizing you're watching them, it's not the voyeurism part that gets you off. On the other hand, if what gets you off is the idea that you are watching them, it's a different thing.

In the second case again I think it depends on your thought process. You might let someone fuck your girlfriend because you want to see sex up close without being the one doing the sexing, and kinda treat it like "4k porn but more realistic". If on the other hand you are viewing it as being a "third participant" it's a different thing. Same as if you're viewing it from a voyeur perspective where you don't consider yourself to be "in the situation", but just "watching them".

Of course all of these are blurry, but I think there's a significant distinction on how you think about yourself in those situations, and which part of the situation is actually what gives you the pleasure. Because then you might find other things more to your liking as they could provide the same thing "more directly".

 

[Meaning Less]

You are being a voyeur, but if you're self-inserting and being aroused by the idea of you having sex and not even realizing you're watching them, it's not the voyeurism part that gets you off.

I'm pretty sure that's the whole point of voyeurism, the voyeur imagines himself into the situation and masturbates to it, it is basically watching porn... At least that's why I enjoy it.

Of course all of these are blurry, but I think there's a significant distinction on how you think about yourself in those situations, and which part of the situation is actually what gives you the pleasure.

While I agree with the main sentiment, it still doesn't stops the situation from being voyeuristic in all cases, if you are watching a girl having sex through a hidden camera, or through a a camera she put there herself, it all appeals to voyeur instincts mostly since you aren't really part of the action.

 

[morphnet]

So if you are literally spying someone have sex irl and get off on it by just thinking "oh yeah take my dick bitch" it suddenly stops being voyeur?

Or if you let someone else fuck your girlfriend and just "self insert" as the guy fucking her, you also aren't being cucked?

In alot of cases "self insert" is used because the person won't / can't be in that specific situation, it doesn't make much sense in terms of a girlfriend as you can be in that situation so there is no need for a substitute unless you are playing out a fantasy that you can't / won't be able to achieve without one.

Why do I feel like some people are angry for having OP mentioning the porn they watch might not be so vanilla?

A bit too defensive imo, OP has the right to feel that way and let's be honest there are strong voyeur aspects of watching straight porn, regardless if you like it or not.

I'm sensing insecurities from both sides.

As far as I can tell people are not getting "angry" because OP said the porn the are watching might not be vanilla, OP stated " i tried watching it once but i didn't get off at all " and " i find it strange that dudes pounding women is the main thing for the market since being straight is the general sexuality. what's so hot about a dudes voice while he's breathing, and close up shots of his face and dick n balls flopping in and out a woman then creaming all over the place? " he is implying that watching any kind of straight sex makes him a "straight" guy feel cucked and that makes no sense, they are not his girlfriend or wife and he has no real reason to believe he would be having sex with them anytime soon, if at all... Plus he seems to have an overwhelming dislike for penises in any material he views, which is strange since they have only been making these kinds of clips / films since the 1900's it's not like he couldn't figure out what general porn was like but then states the reason for the post is " i just wish more porn catered for people like me. " which is nuts as well as there are thousands of clips and videos catering to his tastes in a number of different genres.

He could easily have made a thread saying "hi guys i don't really enjoy general porn clips can anyone suggest type of porn that focus more on the woman?" instead he made one " i'm straight i hate penises i love lesbians and tentacles (just not dick shaped ones) now tell me why it's hot to have guys in straight porn i can't get off i feel cucked after watching it once.
You can really say "oh he's here for an open and honest chat."

 

[Meaning Less]

he is implying that watching any kind of straight sex makes him a "straight" guy feel cucked and that makes no sense

It does makes sense though, in fact this viewpoint is quite popular amongst simps and certain groups of both males and females.
They hate seeing women having sex with other guys and always feel cucked or at least some level of envy, but watching girls masturbating or having other girls/dildos fucking them doesn't violate this fantasy.

I've seen plenty of lesbians complaining about seeing dicks the exact same way op complains about seeing guys or dicks in general. It's just that some people are more nitpicky than others, simple as that.

Luckily there is enough porn on the internet to please everyone online, you just have to know what to look for.

 

[cutepen]

I'm pretty sure that's the whole point of voyeurism, the voyeur imagines himself into the situation and masturbates to it, it is basically watching porn... At least that's why I enjoy it.

I can speak from at least personal perspective that that's not what I find intriguing about voyeurism most of the time. I like the idea of "watching" without necessarily being involved.

I remember seeing one comic on reddit where the protagonist could freeze time and then took off girl's clothes and jerked off (or something like that), and really liked it. Sure there would be some sexual aspects, but I could imagine even if it was purely "watching" (like say with an invisibility cloak) it would still work.

 

[Meaning Less]

I remember seeing one comic on reddit where the protagonist could freeze time and then took off girl's clothes and jerked off (or something like that), and really liked it.

Indeed people find different kinks hot for different reasons, so it makes sense. Some people like seeing girls naked because they imagine themselves fucking them, others imagine themselves being caught, others imagine the girl's reaction when seeing cum on them, and plenty more possible scenarios/fantasies.

But regardless, if you make a game where the mc is solely watching other people fucking through cameras in his pc, that game will most likely be tagged with masturbation and voyeurism, regardless if he is thinking about replacing the dude or not. So everyone used to watching porn will most likely have at least some level of tolerance to voyeurism.

 

[more lesbian foot massage]

you sound pretty salty man. even if you mainly focus on a woman, you are tecinally watching a man's penis anyway, you are masturbating to a hairy man smeshing a girl. the camera focuses and zooms in the mans face, hairy arse, his moans. in what world would that be considered straight? even if i'm a closet gay or bisexual, this does not diminish my points.

So you are frightened you will become gay if you accidently focused on the man's face, hairy arse and his moans? I suggest not focusing on that but the woman instead. Seriously. Just try to watch porn from a first person perspective like you are the guy. That so hard for you?