I think female domination can be showcased by selfishness and control more than by an actual desire of domination.I think female domination needs to meet two key points
1: Women must have a sadistic desire or mentality, either because they simply want to torture men, or because they are superior and look down on men. Someone said before that if a woman wants to forcefully lick a man's semen or drink his urine, the problem is that the woman does not have a sadistic mentality.
2: The plot must have women occupying a dominant position and women dominating men. Men can be playful or obsessive.
In addition, I personally don’t like games that can be reversed. If I want to play reversal, why don’t I play a male dominance game? But I really like the resistance that you can resist but in the end you are defeated and recaptured and dominated by women no matter what.
In games and fetishist representations, you often end up in that caricature of "dominant" personalities, but it feels just like what it is: an extreme to illustrate a trait.
In real life, you can be dominant because:
1/ You think your partner needs to be controlled (for you or for themselves)
2/ You want to improve your own life
In both cases, it's not really about looking down on the other, and even if it doesn't need to be consensual, it can be. And that feels much more powerful to me, when there is an actual reasoning behind it, with the domination itself being an end to a mean.
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