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i really do understand that, supply and demand is the basis of all commerce ...but why only the video games why is there so little of it in other adult media? or is it simply more hidden? harder to find? or maybe its less believable in live action? as you know they are just actors? or is it simply that in a game...your in control...yeah the nature of the interaction...
Occam's razor once again...
It's not in real porn, because in few countries realistic depictions of rape is illegal, such as the UK and Germany. I don't believe it's technically "illegal" in the US, just that most porn sites don't allow it. At least, that's the little I know about it. Could be entirely wrong.
 

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but why only the video games why is there so little of it in other adult media? or is it simply more hidden? harder to find? or maybe its less believable in live action? as you know they are just actors?
Pixels aren't real, but if a real human is fake-raped, it hits different. There is less tolerance for it. Many porn sites ban too realistic looking rape porn, if they have any at all (mostly for legal reasons and to avoid getting fucked by credit card companies).
The issue is, that sometimes it isn't easy to differentiate if the scene is ONLY acted and not real or an actuall crime.
But rape porn is still out there and there is plenty of it (porn comics, hentai animes/mangas and also JAVs (japanese adult videos) usually don't shy away from that).

In the past (70s, 80s) rape in action movies where a common thing. It was an easy and cheap way to portray how evil and terrible the villain was and (probably more important for those sleazy filmmakers) to have some tits and ass in their movie.
But this approach fell out of fashion because it is really cheap filmmaking, it just shows a lack of imagination (showing that the villain is evil by having him rape someone is just as dumb, as having the hero have sex with his wife just to show he has a functioning marriage).
 

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There are currently 16,766 games listed on this site.
6,502 of them use at least one of the following tags that could be considered non-consensual:
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(I did not include loli/shota - even though those should also fit under the non-consensual category, but are separately considered in their own right).

That leaves 10,264 games which do not have one of those tags: 61%, nearly 2/3rds of all games on this site do not have one of the above tags.

You obviously need to do better than your best. it's really not that hard to avoid.
I'm not supporting Reddit, nor the commenters, but now you're going outside of what your original question was and instead of rehashing something already discussed elsewhere, I would prefer to simply link to it:

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Then either you have a differing view of what should be tagged as rape than what many others do, or the games aren't tagged properly and you need to use the REPORT button on the first post of the game thread to say that the rape tag is missing.

However, perhaps you should list the 5-6 games you state do not have the rape tag but you believe have rape in them so that we can review, ourselves.
While I usually agree with these data analytics, in this case, it would put rape at the top 5 along with big tiddies/ass, vaginal and oral, making it the most popular real tag on the site.
 
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I'm a little confused here, several people have given OP an answer yet he repeats the question again multiple times? People have given advice on how better to avoid said content too.

This reeks of "Moral outcry" like does OP expect us to be mad about it or something?
 

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thats simply not true iv already played about 5-6 games WITHOUT the rape tag....and it had rape...
Let me guess, despite them not having the "rape" tag, they had at least one of those tags: "corruption", "blackmail", "drugs", "graphic violence", "humiliation", "maledom", "mind control", "sexual harassment", "sleep sex".


[...] the amount of rape in shows/movies is not remotely at the same level as in adult games
Well, it's a good thing then that absolutely no one said that rape is as frequent in shows/movies than in adult games.
 

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[Oops, sorry for the double post]

[...] but why only the video games why is there so little of it in other adult media? or is it simply more hidden? harder to find? or maybe its less believable in live action? as you know they are just actors? or is it simply that in a game...your in control...yeah the nature of the interaction...
Occam's razor once again...
Please, don't use expressions like "Occam's razor" when you have no fucking clue what they mean and are totally unable to do some basic critical thinking.

Rape being illegal, any video featuring a rape, even a faked one, would be removed by the hosting platform and, if it's a real rape, it would be used as proof during your trial. If it's a faked rape, it would still be removed by the hosting platfrom, and could still lead to legal issues, with both actors having to face a judge and explain not only that they were consenting, but also why they thought that filming, then broadcasting, a rape would be a good idea.

As Occam's razor principle say, the simplest explanation is the most likely to be true. And, from my point of view, "rape is illegal" is a simpler explanation than "it's hidden" and all the bullshit you came with.


Oh, by the way, I'm pretty sure that there's even more rape in porn literature than in porn games.
 

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Showing hardcore stuff in a porn "story" is easier then to be a Shakespeare and write about a romance poetry.
 

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While I usually agree with these data analytics, in this case, it would put rape at the top 5 along with big tiddies/ass, vaginal and oral, making it the most popular real tag on the site.
Well, when you look at the tags cloud...

Remove what isn't sex related ((2|3)DCG and animated), you end with: Vaginal Sex, Oral Sex, Male protagonist, big tits, big ass, anal sex, creampie, then the level 3 tags. Those tags being, in alphabetical order, female protagonist, groping, group sex, handjob, lesbian, masturbation, rape, teasing.
Big tits and asses aren't sexual practice, as well as the protagonist gender and sexual orientation, what lead to: Vaginal sex, Oral sex, Anal sex, Creampie, then at equality the combo Groping, Group sex, Handjob, Rape, Masturbation.

Therefore, the only "real tag" that is more present than rape is creampie. Then come, at equality, two none consensual tags, groping and rape.
So, you can disagree with Count Morado's data analytics if you want, but the forum data analytics isn't this far to say the same.

While members complain because they feel that futa, harem, incest, and NTR game (depending on their own disgust) are over represented tags, they are only at level 1, so way less used than rape. And at least one thing is true in what OP said, the tag is way too often missing.
 

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i am genuinely curious as to why thee is so much rape in porn games? and im talking about all types of rape, the soft rape of things like blackmail and coercion, the "she enjoyed it so its not rape" and the hard rape of the girl kicking and screaming and trying to fight off her attacker.....
im not trying to shame anyone, or pass judgment, i just want to know why there is just SOOOOO much rape in porn games....
like out of all the games i have played on this site alone about 70% of them have had some form of rape, and thats not to mention all the games i simply didn't download as the it was described as a "rape simulator"...
again no judgement ...just curious
exerting power over things is inherently pleasurable. it makes your brain secrete feel good hormones.

but as social animals humans also have strong altruistic instincts to look out for the other members of the herd, to keep them safe and stop them from suffering. one of those is empathy, which is a chemical reaction in our brain designed to cause that altruistic social behavior. it's the backstop for not exerting power over others to hurt them, just because it feels good. instead empathy makes us feel incredibly bad to see others suffer.

so the underlying reason for enjoying rape fantasies is the same as why fictional violence in general is massively popular in mainstream: it's a safe way to experience dark power play fantasies without endangering anyone. in an action movie no one is actually hurt. in a rape story no one gets actually raped. but you still get the pleasure of exerting power.

for most that certainty of not hurting anyone is a requirement to even enjoy it. that's what fantasy brings on the table. it gives you the internal permission to enjoy dark things, which is predicated on your empathy not kicking in. it being fantasy allows you to explore the pleasure of power WITHOUT the things that make it bad and evil. it's eating your cake and saving it too. raping the girl while not raping girls. shooting people while not shooting people. genociding whole interstellar civilizations while not genociding anyone.

it's simulating the part that gives us pleasure, without the part that prevents the pleasure IRL.



(btw, I don't know why people are talking about tagging. your question made perfect sense to me.)
 
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i really do understand that, supply and demand is the basis of all commerce ...but why only the video games why is there so little of it in other adult media?
it used to be absolutely everywhere. every older romantic movie used to have the male star raping or forcing himself on the romantic interest, and almost every romantic movie used to be about stalking your victim until she gives in.

then about 20 years ago or so people started acknowledging that maybe we shouldn't teach young people that 'no' is just foreplay, and that she'll come around from even hating a guy if you just manipulate and force yourself on her arrogantly enough. and that's why it's rare now in other than sex media, but it definitely wasn't before.
 

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Azi VonVeil, what kind of games do you play? Male or female protagonist, western or Japanese, engine, that kind of thing? The game Descent you mentioned is a female-protagonist slice-of-life VN. That's .

If you play VNs and similar most of the time you can check the more detailed tagging at . If there's a page there.

Why there's so much rape in the games here? There's another answer next to the ones you already got. The adult game scene is full and full with horny men. More horny men means more coomer-brained stuff. Most rape "plotlines" you find here are coomer-brained.

I asked simple questions and I got a rambling wall of dense text that talks in circles in run-on sentences and paragraphs.

I am not going to read all that.

The games I did glean from your lengthy and rambling response do have those tags - whether avoidable in game or not.

The best way for you to avoid the games with rape are to steer clear of games with the tags I listed. Especially based upon your assertion that "rape makes me both sad, angry and overall discussed [disgusted]... its puts me in a bad mental state."

You could even add 3 more tags you wish to avoid in the filter on the Latest Updates page. That's under the current system. When the new tag system is unveiled -- in months or years -- they plan to expand that to 20 maximum to exclude.

You still have 10,264 games to choose from. That is enough of a selection for you to play a different game each day for more than 28 years, and by that time, you'd have more than 4 times as many to choose from to continue ... or go back to the 10,264 and play their updated versions by that time.

You are not doing your best to avoid them if you think you see a tag which is affiliated with non-consensual sex and think you can avoid it in some way.

Blackmail is non-consensual. Corruption is non-consensual. Drugs (when attempting to dope potential partners) is non-consensual. Mind control is non-consensual. Slave is non-consensual. Sleep sex is non-consensual. And, of course, Rape is non-consensual.

Are there exceptions? Yes.
Are there games that make it avoidable? Yes.

However, if you are that averse to non-consensual sex - you shouldn't even bother with them.

Just exclude those tags ALWAYS and then you are doing your best to avoid. Period.
For the best results, to be perfectly sure, they should exclude this too:

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exerting power over things is inherently pleasurable. it makes your brain secrete feel good hormones.
There's another side to the rape fetish: being the victim. Not everyone playing games about rape is doing it for some power fantasy.
 
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The link between male aggression and male sexuality is pretty strong. It's also been studied extensively. You can probably easily google up a plethora of articles and videos far more informative on the subject than any answer you're going to get on a forum inhabited by a throng of maladjusted coom goblins.
 

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Animals can't consent. The world is full of rape, and thank god for that, because it would be a very empty place otherwise.
 
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it used to be absolutely everywhere. every older romantic movie used to have the male star raping or forcing himself on the romantic interest, and almost every romantic movie used to be about stalking your victim until she gives in.
Not just romantic movies. Is there an action movie where the main girl isn't groped, and forcefully kissed, against her will by the hero ?


then about 20 years ago or so people started acknowledging that maybe we shouldn't teach young people that 'no' is just foreplay, and that she'll come around from even hating a guy if you just manipulate and force yourself on her arrogantly enough.
And that "stop lying, you're mad in love with me" is a pick-up line.
 
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[Oops, sorry for the double post]



Please, don't use expressions like "Occam's razor" when you have no fucking clue what they mean and are totally unable to do some basic critical thinking.

Rape being illegal, any video featuring a rape, even a faked one, would be removed by the hosting platform and, if it's a real rape, it would be used as proof during your trial. If it's a faked rape, it would still be removed by the hosting platfrom, and could still lead to legal issues, with both actors having to face a judge and explain not only that they were consenting, but also why they thought that filming, then broadcasting, a rape would be a good idea.

As Occam's razor principle say, the simplest explanation is the most likely to be true. And, from my point of view, "rape is illegal" is a simpler explanation than "it's hidden" and all the bullshit you came with.


Oh, by the way, I'm pretty sure that there's even more rape in porn literature than in porn games.
ok now you just being an ass i used occams razor in the correct way, the simplest answer (rape is so common because of supply and demand) as to your second point..uhh there are entire sites dedicated to fake rape, just like how incest is illegal but its a large portion of porn both live action and otherwise...you clearly are not understanding what i mean...and thats ok i cant blame you, i offent have trouble getting my thoughts across clearly
 

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I'm a little confused here, several people have given OP an answer yet he repeats the question again multiple times? People have given advice on how better to avoid said content too.

This reeks of "Moral outcry" like does OP expect us to be mad about it or something?
first off they gave what they thought the answer is, wither or not its the true answer or if there are many true answers is the whole point.
this isn't a scientific fact this isn't something with one correct answer, so to claim i was given my answer is simply incorrect. but in fairness many of the points brought up are valid arguments/reasoning and have certainly helped me better understand things.
yes people have given me good advice and i thank them for it, really i am truly thankful for it.
and please do not make such assumptions...if i was looking for moral outcry would i use such respectful language? not once have i disparaged anyhow who creates, distributes or enjoys content that i do not.
you may not think it true but i really am just looking for peoples thoughts on the matter, not hear to rile up the mod to hunt anyone down, hell im shocked this topic did not have more trolls and that there are people willing to broach the topic seriously