Strongly agree right there. But for whatever reason, some seem to care. In my opinion playing a game like this doesn't necessarily say something about your sexuality. I base this off of who I've seen read yaoi books. Sometimes you're just in it for the story, whether it be because the story seems really good or you needed a happy pick me up (sometimes I read a story just because it looks like it would improve my mood).
Example: I definitely didn't read Killing Stalking for the sexy fun times. Isn't that way for Black Mirror or Painter of the Night either (though sexy times are definitely in those two, banzai).
I mean, if you are just in for the story, you wouldn't actively pursuing sexual contents.
Also I think there's a caveat / uniqueness for YAOI / female audience focused game, that their focus of the story / relationship / psychology is much stronger than any other type of porn game.
Sometime the porn is even actively ruining the game.
Like "Fate / Stay Night" is a great game, but the Porn version is actually way worse than the SFW version, if you care more about the game than the porn.