Ok, I know that the whole virgin/hymen discussion was a few pages back, but I just have to add a comment about it for you morons that don't understand biology. The definition of the word virgin is:
- a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
It is completely possible for a girl to be a virgin but not have an intact hymen. A few years ago my kids were riding their bikes on the empty lot across from out house because the city had piled a bunch of dirt and gravel there as they were doing road work in the area. The kids were riding their bikes up the piles and using them as ramps to jump the bikes off them. My 10 year old step-daughter jumped her bike and lost control. When she landed, the bike landed almost straight up and down on the back wheel and then fell backwards on her. The other kids ran home to get her mom and I and we ended up taking her to the ER because her mother was worried since she had multiple scrapes and bruises, was doubled over holding her abdomen and had blood showing through her shorts. After being examined at the ER, we found out that when the bike had hit rear wheel first, the point of the banana seat had violently impacted her vagina so forcefully that it had not only caused a tear for which she received 2 stitches, but had also broken her hymen. One day (many years from now with a man who has walked through fire for her and proven himself to be nothing short of perfect) when she has intercourse for the first time, she will not bleed. That in no way makes her a slut or not a virgin. It simply makes her a girl whose hymen broke prior to her first sexual experience. There are many ways that a girl can break her hymen with out having sexual intercourse or being a slut.
As for anyone who doesn't understand that, well, my daughter is 13 now and testing for her black belt next month, so good luck calling her a slut!