It's funny you say it, it's like you listened to my thoughts today when I was watching some random Death Note scenes and feeling bad for characters that got killed in a fucked up way. I'm really not a fan of me getting too deep into stories and feel for fictional characters, I actually hate that about myself but it is what it is. Trust me I do wish I cared less but that's just how some people are I guess
Are you talking about the first H scene with Rose? You don't have to apologize because you don't have to do anything sexual with her in that scene iirc. but I get your point, same outcome. I do wish Ian didn't have his fingers / dick on Rose at that time already though, it also kind of undermines that whole LI route in my head a bit. But you could say the same about Mina and I do like her too, even though it's again, a little bit different with what happened there.
I'll let my favorite fictional character guilt trip me if it means I can help her out in that situation and get a genuine LI on top of it, let me indulge in my plans a bit