Your age definition for M.I.L.F.

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I think it depends on how young you want your mother character to have been when she gave birth. For instance, if you want to give your mother character a dark origin story, where she was raped by her father or some other trusted male figure in her life and you were born, then she could be as young as 29. However, if you want a more conventional mother, someone who's characteristics are prudish, conservative, then you're gonna wanna skew older, more like she would have waited till she found the one. You could also go for somewhere between 33 and 38 if your mother character is supposed to be more sexual, as if she maybe was a slut and had kids young.

For me, the only thing that truly matters in defining a milf is your writing. You have to convince me that she's my mother and that I should be attracted to her. I guess art plays into that as well, but I'll accept a young mother as quickly as I will a more weathered older woman. Hell, my suspension of disbelief is such that you could make the mom look like she's in her twenties, tell me she's 65, and that its a future where we've cured aging. But you have to convincce me of these things with your writing.
 

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A woman with (or who has had) children.

Age doesn't matter to me (unless you bring up some stupid extreme point like a 15 year old mother). What matters more is her physical appearance and an ideal "motherly MILF" to me is a THICC woman who acts her age. It's why I fucking despise hentai games because all of the """"MILFs"""""" act and sound like legit children.

"OH, SENPAI, YOU WANT MOMMY TO SUCK YOUR COCK? O-O-O-O-OK SON!"

Absolute vomit inducing passivity like that is why I can't stand Hentai "incest" games.
 
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The ILF bit for me has to be bare minimum 18 preferable 25/30+
Now the Mother part....
Biologically - 12/13 is old enough
Legally (in the UK) 16 is the youngest, though we had our era of gymslip mums :(
There is always the disclaimer that active characters are 18+ so if it's mother child then I would say mid-30s plus.
For me MILF conjours someone between 25 and 50, 50-60 is a grey area, then 60+ we are talking GILF.
It isn't all about the looks either, there is an attitude too. 18 - 25 without kids should = fun loving & carefree, 25 - 50 other responsibilities are starting to kick in, which tend to colour people's reactions according to their priorities. Though the older group tend to have a bit more money so if they get chance to kick back, can do so harder. Also with age comes wisdom, things like "Getting older is mandatory, but growing up is not" ;)
 
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The definition of MILF has nothing to do with age and everything to do with being a mother, IMHO.
I know several mothers who had their first child when they were 16.
One of my high school classmates got married when he and his girlfriend were 18, right after graduation. They had a child at 19.
It means that a MILF can be a 18 or even 16-year old mother. It's not a common thing, but not impossible or even that unusual.
Biologically, yes, they can be even younger, but I've only read about some, never known any younger moms.
What I mean is that it's really not about the age and a mother of a 18-year old could be just 34 or even younger. I mean that a mother in a game does not have to be 18+18 years old, the game isn't about the mother getting pregnant with the character of the game after all. The fact that she was younger than 18 at the time has nothing to do with the game where everyone is already at least 18.

Besides, I haven't seen a normal looking DAZ model of a 40 or 45 year old woman yet - they're either looking no older than 30 or jump straight to a 55 to 60 year old face on a 30 year old body, claiming to be around 40 years old (sometimes in a way too revealing outfit for a 60 year old face). To me it looks just creepy. :coldsweat: The same way and even worse than models with out-of-proportions body parts do.
 

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I just had to google this... now I'm depressed!


5 years old?!? Really??? I guess THAT screws up my MILF definition...
(edit: OK, to be more exact, 5 years and 7 months... but still...)

I was thinking 13-14 (to get pregnant), add 18 years (so the son is of legal age when he starts banging mom...), which would be just over 30.

Sure, the Wiki examples are extreme cases, but that'd make a MILF 23 by my logic... and with one very sad backstory. Sure the son/daughter gets to survive/live to 18, so that's happy, but...

Note to self. Must resist urge to google sometimes.

And, along those lines,
here's an important PSA for y'all:
Do NOT google otter porn...
you've been warned.
 

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I just had to google this... now I'm depressed!


5 years old?!? Really??? I guess THAT screws up my MILF definition...
(edit: OK, to be more exact, 5 years and 7 months... but still...)

I was thinking 13-14 (to get pregnant), add 18 years (so the son is of legal age when he starts banging mom...), which would be just over 30.

Sure, the Wiki examples are extreme cases, but that'd make a MILF 23 by my logic... and with one very sad backstory. Sure the son/daughter gets to survive/live to 18, so that's happy, but...

Note to self. Must resist urge to google sometimes.

And, along those lines,
here's an important PSA for y'all:
Do NOT google otter porn...
you've been warned.
One... Sad? Disgusting? I'm not sure how to classify it really, bit of information I've learned is that sexual activity with a prepubescent girl can jumpstart puberty. Which means that a child being molested constantly has a chance of bearing a child themselves. Holy fuck though, that's a dark origin story.
 
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Penfold Mole

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Another thing in the list of things one shouldn't google. This and otter porn. Thanks for the warning :pokerFace:
 
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I'd say the absolute minimum is 36. In that case she was 18 when she had her first child and her first child is already 18. Preferably she'd be around 40-45 though, with children 20-25.

Of course this is only true for normal human beings on this planet. Angels, succubi, valkyries, elves, aliens and time travellers are a completely different matter.
 
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Thanks all. Good to see that somehow we have the same definition of M.I.L.F. I was thinking that maybe, the majority would prefer a young looking one, and could not accept age marks.
 

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I would agree with those who said 35+.

Given most of the game titles available we need to be flexible with our fantasies, though,
 

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Whilst a milf is basically a mother you would like to fuck and could be any age over 16 in uk .I think to qualify as a true milf a bit of experience under the belt is required so i would be looking generally around 34years of age +